It's been forever since I last blogged! I'm still at my parent's house in Washington, and soooo ready to come home tomorrow. I've only been here a week, but I'm bloody bored. I flew in on the 22nd, and didn't get home until nearly 9:30 pm. Mom and I did the holiday baking on the 23rd, went shopping on the 24th, because she had a $10 off coupon that expired that day at JC Penney's. I managed to find a shirt originally $30, marked down 50 %, and with the coupon and tax....$5.40. Woohoo! Christmas was fine, I got alot of little things to fit inside my suitcase. On the 27th, my brother and I saw The Producers. It was ok. Not the best, not the worst. It's hard to believe that Ferris Bueller is all grown up! I also found a pair of jeans at the Gap for $20. Yay! I'm leaving for the airport tomorrow probably like 8 am. My flight is at noon, but it takes nearly 2 hours to get up there, and Seattle's airport is a madhouse. I'll be happy to get home though, I'm going to the Tavernacle tomorrow night!

I've come to the conclusion that I'm too nice a person. Well, most of the time anyway. I can't say no to anyone with a reasonable request. I babysit when I don't want to, I run errands that really have nothing to do with me, I drive people everywhere, and I give out my phone number to people that I'm not really interested in. Now here comes the not so nice part. When those people call me, I don't answer the phone, I don't return messages, and then I feel bad about it. I don't like doing things like that, but I'm too scared to tell them the truth. More often than not, I do it because 1.) I can't say no, and 2.) there's usually someone else I like better.

Here comes the twist. This time, the person I like better seems to like me back. The kicker? He's married. Well, separated and as far as I know planning a divorce. There's a 4 year old child thrown into the mix too. And he's still obviously in love with the soon to be ex. Though he's not helping her get a new apartment and whatnot, he's basically taking care of the little boy, and picking her up and dropping her off at/from work. He told me today (just after he asked me to go to his office Christmas party) that he punched his wife's "friend" last night because he had written her a love letter, and the wife had been keeping this other guy on hold for a while now, just in case.

Now, I'm more than willing to be friends with him right now, but that's it. The larger, smarter part of me is screaming that a new relationship is NOT what he needs right now, a friend is. I'm just scared of accidentally getting in too deep.

$1.879? Thanks O'Reilly!

(Title completely stolen from Radio From Hell blog)


As a nation, we should thank Bill O'Reilly and FOX News. Right?


(insert eyerolling emoticon here.)

One more reason to love the British

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20051205/ap_on_re_eu/britain_gay_marriages

LONDON - Gay couples began registering for civil partnerships at town halls
across Britain on Monday as a law took effect giving them many of the same legal
rights as married heterosexuals.

Although the law stops short of
allowing same-sex couples to marry, many said they were still eager to claim the
benefits and official recognition of their relationships — for which some have
waited decades. The Times of London marked the day by publishing notices of "gay
marriages" for the first time.

"We're absolutely delighted," said 80-year-old John Walton, registering
in London with his partner of 40 years, Roger Raglan. "It's enormously important
to us that we should be able to state to everyone that we are partners."

The law, passed last year despite some opposition from Parliament's
unelected House of Lords, permits civil ceremonies that will give same-sex
couples the same social security, tax, pension and inheritance rights as married
couples. Prime Minister

Tony Blair's government dropped the word "marriage" from its
legislation rather than run afoul of lawmakers who feel the word has religious
connotations.

Among the first to register Monday were pop star Elton John and his
filmmaker partner David Furnish, whose official proclamation was posted
alongside those of other impending weddings and partnerships at Maidenhead Town
Hall, west of London.

After the mandatory 15-day waiting period, the couple plan a private
ceremony at Windsor's 17th-century town hall, where Prince Charles married
Camilla Parker Bowles in April.

"Sir Elton and Mr. Furnish are making a solemn and formal commitment to
each other, and our Guildhall offers them dignity and privacy," said Mary-Rose
Gliksten, council leader for the Royal Borough of Windsor and
Maidenhead.

Pop star George Michael has also announced that he will tie the knot with
his long-term partner Kenny Goss sometime next year.

Up to 1,000 couples were expected to register their partnerships Monday. In
Brighton, the southern beach resort that is Britain's self-styled gay capital,
the register office opened at 7:30 a.m. to accommodate waiting
couples.

"It was wonderful," said the Rev. Debbie Gaston, a minister at Metropolitan
Community Church in Brighton who plans to formalize her union with Elaine Gaston
on Dec. 21. "We were aware that it was history in the making and we were
overwhelmed by it all. It's been a long time coming.

The first partnership ceremonies will be held Dec. 19 in Northern Ireland,
Dec. 20 in Scotland and Dec. 21 in England and Wales.

The Netherlands, Canada, Belgium and Spain have legalized same-sex
marriage, while Germany, France and Switzerland have laws similar to Britain's.
In the United States, only Massachusetts allows gay marriage, while Vermont and
Connecticut permit civil unions.
While the legislation aroused some
opposition in Britain, it did not provoke a huge controversy. It caps a
remarkable transformation in social attitudes that began when Victorian laws
outlawing homosexuality were overturned in England and Wales in 1967 — although
they persisted in Scotland until 1980 and Northern Ireland until 1982.
In
2000, the government lifted a longstanding ban on gays serving in the armed
forces and lowered the homosexual age of consent to 16, the same as for
heterosexuals.

"Britain has been in the dark ages over this, but today we have made the
first step into the 21st century," said 66-year-old Percy Steven, registering
his partnership with Roger Lockyer at Westminster Council House in central
London.

"When we first started living together, we were breaking the law," he
added. "If somebody had said to me that one day gay people would be able to have
their partnerships recognized, I would have said 'Yes, but not in my
lifetime.'"

One of the partnership announcements in the Times was placed by Graham
Ferguson, 67, and Christopher Heyd-Smith, 59, a retired couple from Lyme Regis
in southwest England, who plan a civil partnership ceremony Jan. 30.

"We have been living together very happily for 34 years; we have our
wills made out properly to benefit each other, but we feel it is a privilege to
be able to have our partnership legally recognized," the newspaper quoted
Ferguson as saying.